Room to breath in deeply, to truly sink in to your day.
Throw out every tradition (seriously just toss it). There is no need to spend this most beautiful of days hiding from each other or anxiously trying to squeeze in every ritual.
What if you created your own? Like having coffee together in the morning while sitting in that favorite swing by the lake, carving out an hour for a first look so you can hold, and kiss, and share some significant time together just the two of you on your most beautiful of days, get married intimately surrounded by everyone you love and hugging each and every one of them, then sneaking off in a canoe while the sun is setting. If you don't believe the magic that can be created, when you stop trying to plan "the wedding" and start planning something that is so deeply yours take a look at Laura & Bjorn's images and fall into their story. This space is so authentically theirs. The beauty, and love, and community that fills is so much bigger than any tradition, it is everything.